STUPID''S MAG
Police is not your lease
It is extremely difficult to be yourself.
Specially to be accepted by others as yourself. Not being the next door nobody, space taker, squat, loud talker, aggressive, looser, abounded by God, mentally ill, shizofrenic, paranoid, dirty, punch bag, donkey, idiot, dead, hater and specially ugly old witch.
“To be yourself in a world that is constantly trying to make you something else is the greatest accomplishment.”
Annonymus
It is extremely difficult to be accepted somewhere, where you should not be at all. By people you should not had ever met, by doing you should not had ever done by roads you should had not ever went.
It is very difficult to make them like you, accept you the way you are, to stand by you and support you at what you are doing. Even if what you are doing is extremely good.
Consistently trying to get their hearts, their love, their affection is not just waist of time, it is also a waist of your beautiful Aura, your positive vibes. Do not waist it on negative people. They will never appreciate, never understand, never acknowledge you being you. Instead of seeking understanding and aknowledgment among someone else's strong shining, trying to notice, something isn't right and exclude yourself from their involvement. If you don't like a club you are going to, because the visitors and members don't like you there. Be sure there are plenty of clubs which would love to have you among themselves.
If one group of people not honest and don't like you, then there is out there are other groups, which would like having you among them and appreciating you more.
If there is still no luck in having such club, learn how to be by yourself. Instead of endless waiting for someone to call you, to send you a message, invite you, making you feel you are special. Stop waiting! And start enjoying.
Identify all actives you want to do, then point out every activity you need someone to share it with, and you would realise instead of waisting your time, waiting to share your happiness, you rather be doing it alone. What kind of activities would require someone? Well, probably partying, dancing. Nowadays most of the activities could be shared with robots, having it delivered to your door, filmed or selfied.
It doesn't necessarily mean you have to delete the entire contact list and became isolated. It means to revaluate your live situation, in case you are not be currently satisfied with it.
As a useful help is studying of another language might help to get yourself into different world of not being understood. It might open the sides of not just your perception, but will add something specifically positively different into your life.
It is extremely difficult to understand someone who doesn't understand how easy things are. How simple life could be, how limitless options life offers. No one understands me, is the most common respond, from a person who had been tagged as a looser not a winner. It is extremely difficult to understand for them, because they do not understand you.
Why can't you have it done yet? What's stopping you? Inability to share? Inability to get someone else's approval? Inability to express yourself with people, who do not want you to exist, neither to be anywhere near them?
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If someone is referring to you as She or He, it is guaranteed they do not want you to be you. They are using other's name over you, giving you nicknames, referring to you her, him.They clanging their fingers, hey you, they rolls their eyes, they referring to you by anything or anyone but you. Your name? Ignored. Your achievements? Ignored. Your likability and preference? Ignored. Your human rights? Ignored. It is better be always surprised when you are being ignored as a human being, which deserves recognitions. While taking their chances on you, because your undelivered happiness is extremely loud. Because all they do is doing good to you, surely, but not to you. It is better to avoid clubbing with those who causing you mental break downs, distractions, abusing you, humiliate you and just being honest towards your low lockers, at times taking it very personally as their own.
But they are yours, not theirs. It is because you are ignoring their involvement into your life they ignoring you, would be the most honest respond to to be able to get from the intruder.
Your intruders are not your debt collectors, they shall not issuing you a bill to pay. You owe them, your life. Excuse me, am I adopted by you? is a very common question to ask. It is better to acknowledge, because there is always something behind it and move on.
You had been tracking my activities very well. Do you have your own life? - will that make them refocus not on you but on their own lives. You can only hope they would. Because they are not part of your life anymore, mostly had never been. Instead of enjoying your life by yourself, or with your own clubs, you are stuck with them, expecting to give you a lease, you don't need, you don't want and you are not willing to pay at any time of your life. Because bad is the most expensive lease anyone can have. Waisting the time is the most expensive lease anyone can have. Having no acknowledgment, while trying hard to get to the top, having every top brought down to lowest Earth, because it is impossible to please those who are not on your pleasant lists.
How to make your pleasant list? It could be started with writing to a Santa Clause for example. Asking for your own gifts and to have been delivered your own requests and selection of gifts. Most of the time getting your own gifts, helps to focus on what you had ordered and had received.
How to identify that you are possibly is not living at your best?
Your results are showing your achievements and where you should be.
If your result are below your expectations of yourself, it is better to stop and start reevaluating your performance. To be accepted at first by yourself. It is always wiser to be completely independent from anything and anyone, but again, being independent and mostly feeling independent, having no one ever telling you off, shutting your ups and achievements, placing road blocks in your mind, demanding to share the dreams, claiming ownerships over your doings including your all and everyone is the most politest way to live .