Stupid's Mag 09/2022 Page 8-9

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Don't buy alcohol from Russians; sober looks good on you

Russia had been known for many aspects.

One of them is extreme cold and alcoholics.

Every country has its own specifics and its own solutions based on the country specifications and its own tasks. Based on the language, traditions, demographical issues, ability to solve the problems successfully and implement solutions. The implementation of the changes differs on the seeing ,hearing and the intellect involved into the solution process.

It is not only about explication to get to solution, the most difficult in problem solving is to be heard, understood and taken care of.

Why would entire country be drowned into explicit number of alcoholics everywhere?

First of all it needs to understand what alcoholics represent.

They represent a failure. Once being under alcohol through exsessive or any consumption of alcoholic substances, it slows a human being down. The speech becomes very slow, motions becomes extremely slow, tiredness and irresponsible behaviour, to complete loosing control over the actions. Something what is called vulnerability. There are a few stages while being under alcoholic substance. The slowest is the last stage, which mostly identifies alcoholics including those who are extremely aggressive and seek for forgiveness after wards.

Alcoholics are extremely loud, dirty, at the deep stages unemployed and living off social benefits supported by the government. Those are the people who completely lost the control over their lives and mostly over their minds and thoughts. They do known their truth and they do see it very deeply, just as homeless, which are in some cases are connected to each other.

Perceiving alcohol as a disease could be a solution, but what kind of leases alcohol is?

Alcohol is substance containing a high amount of sugar, which stimulates the function of the brain and relates the tension, fears and emotional blockages. nevertheless, only temporarily. At some point alcohol used to be consumed in a life threatening situations, getting extremely cold, frightened or being emotionally drained. And only as one shot. Consistent consumption of alcohol is not recommended at all. Recommendation of having one glass at a night out is better than draining oneself into temporary lost of control over one's owned life.

Alcohol intoxication is acute condition consuming large amount of alcohol during a short period of time. It is nothing else than poisoning, which could lead to coma and further more death.

Alcohol stays in the blood stream from 6 to 24 hours it differs individually and up to 90 days it stays in the hair.

Alcohol is not only sugar but it also ethanol, water being seethed through stages of brewing mostly combined with natural ingredients. Yeast ferments, fruits, vegetables, grains, wood, rye, wheat and sugar. Doesn't sound as anything harmful, but it is.

It is rare to have anywhere around alcoholics in Europe but they are, it is hardly any alcoholics in U.K. but they are. Just as everywhere around globe they are. But not as many as they are in Russia.

Why there are some many alcoholics in Russia?

It is a question which no one can answer thoroughly, the closes respond to this is loss of self control.

How to gain the control back? it depends on the situations. It is extremely rare for anyone to become isolated from the outer space, friends, other people, working enviroment, being withdrawn from all possible activities and to be left alone.

Keeping the mind occupied with any kind of activity, reading, walking, exercising, getting involved into all kinds hobbies could be a possible solution on how to release mind tensions excluding alcohol.

Consumption of alcohol is also reflects the physical appearance, skin colour, hair, teeth, general body organ functions and state of mind. Therefore it is better to avoid such harmful consumption of the poisoned drink.

Moreover, in Russia it is a problem solving of everywhere problem, without any other system working better than solving certain problems with alcohol involvement.

It is advisable to focus on other solutions than alcohol consumption Russia has to offer and willing to share. Nevertheless, it is wise to use only reliable resources.

What is considered to be sober in figurative percetion?

It is being able to take care of oneself. Starting from physical appearance, being able to express oneself freely, being reliable, trustworthy in form of combined with everything else. Do not get it wrong, if being late to the meeting, or a job shall not be considered being infected with alcoholics, neither being stuck in a wrong relationship onset mean being under alcoholic spell, neither being misfortunate at something, but fortunate as something else, doesn't mean it could be involvement of alcohol. All worldwide failures doesn't mean alcoholism, neither it does not mean Russia it to blame for everything that went other than expected. All the bad will become sooner or later unwanted memory, and only what we consider to be valuable will remain in our lives. Keep the mind of sober going it looks better on everyone around you.

8 You never listen to the rude

Nobody likes rude, nobody likes listen to the rude and nobody shall not spread out rudeness.

It is extremely non advisable to be rude.

There are many forms to be rude.

The most audacious is neglecting someone else's sufferings without any signs of having a need to help. Specially, if there is an ability to help. It is impertinent to be avoiding a need of someone who is in need.

There are many needs humans and animals can encounter. Witnessing the sufferings is painful enough, but doing nothing is considered to be rude.

Any form of abuse or cause of discomfort is considered to be discourteous. The association with rudeness at first impression is considered to be verbally impolite.

Why are we sensitive when we hear other people being impolite?

Generally, impoliteness is a protective shield of a person who is using impolite expressions. Impolite expression are in most of the cases are being spoken out loud, with extreme negativity, which is nothing else than explosiveness of the emotions, being builded up inside the speaker. It is rare for a person living in a gentle background, without any sense of aggressivity, completely secured and enjoying well being using impoliteness in a verbal manner. In majority of cases it is a trigger of society at a lower financial security level, with higher sensitivity to the changes.

Is there a need to be verbally impolite? Certainly isn't. There is also no need to be poor, hungry, homeless, any how limited, without an ability to control the situation. Which is in most cases is a need to be verbal impolite. As soon as there is a loss of control at some individuals, first reaction is to swear rudely. Then to stop loss of control and further down to take actions to prevent the spread of loss of control. Such is mostly being neglected and being letting go off the trigger.

Are there any other situations apart from loss of control and neglecting the sufferings of one another?

It is impolite not to be on time, it is impolite to be dirty, it is also very rude not to keep promises, to lie, with such there is no need for obedience. But rather understanding of the causes which led to loose the control over the situations.

To conclude it in any form of impoliteness there is only one cause, loss of control, therefore a need to be responsively rude doesn't exist. If it is not particularly you who is loosing control or lost control, no need to be aggressively rude in return. It is not returning the "favour" it is being irresponsive to the loss of control, instead to be responsive to the cause of the loss of control and being able to offer a solution.

If someone is losing control over the situation it means at that particular moment a person doesn't see any other get away from a situation than being impolite, to others and to oneself. It is advisable to be extra supportive to those who have tendency loosing control in order to prevent the same situation of losing control to encounter. It doesn't not mean, any one has to jump into safeguarding when the neighbours are fighting with each other, or than annoying guy always shouts out rude hell knows what curses. Nevertheless, understanding the situation, knowing the ability to help to change the situation, is a main need to acquire to keep your own self control under control. It had been proven, when helping others, humans understanding they own needs for self establishment. To be able to notice a need of someone else with ability to help, without expecting anything else in return than an approval changes for better could be made, is one of the basic light any of the human has. And again it doesn't mean to became a self distractive philanthropist, which is sacrificing oneself for the sake of everyone else. There are never enough of heroes it is true, sometimes there is also no one needs a helping witness either.

Just to keep in mind, do not pass over the situation where the situation had been looking for you. Instead, keep yourself under self control.

Is there a particular expertise to keep away swearing rudely? As with everything, at first self acknowledgment is needed. Have you noticed you swear more than usual, or rather suddenly started using impolite words? What kind of life situation do you have, which is causing your impoliteness? ? What are the most common life situations are causing impoliteness?

money shortage or rather chronical luck of money
being exposed to rude behaviour from others
life threatening situations
danger of a loss in any form of any kind
resentment
inability to control situation
fear
other

Hardly having a great time and well established life ever is being associated with being impolite. After identifying the cause it is easier to use self control and self observation over impoliteness, which could eventually be eliminated to the as rare as no need at all.